"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Question about wireless internet

RazorAzoth

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I have wireless internet on my computer but I never used it. I was wondering about something though. In the list of wireless networks in your area, there's some that are security-enabled networks and some that are unsecure. The security-enabled ones require a password to log on to the network, but the unsecure ones do not. My relative in my neighborhood has hers unsecure, is that illegal for me to go onto to her network and cancel my ISP?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Darth

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Not a great idea, because if you do any downloading or you're on it a lot your neighbor will eventually figure out what's going on and password protect her service.
 

speakeasy

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I don't think it's illegal. But if you rely on your service, just buy your own, because you never can tell when the other person's service is going to be down. I think it's insane to leave your wireless unsecured. If someone was downloading kiddy porn in your area using your connection, the FBI is going to come busting YOUR door down since it will be traced to your IP. I wouldn't even use wireless unless it was secure for that very reason.
 

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As long as you're not sitting outside of your neighbor's house with a laptop and trying to catch their wireless signal, there's nothing specifically illegal about it. Probably not a very nice thing to do, but you won't get in any trouble.

I did that for a while, but then it became too much of a pain to catch the signal, deal with slow speeds and disconnects, not being able to get on half of the time.

I said fvck it and now am spending that bloody $45 a month for broadband, worth every dollar.

Unless your neighbor's router is less than 25 feet away and thru no more than one wooden wall, don't bother with it.
 

It's-Me

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I doubt it's illegal. Even if you do something illegal with it, they'll trace the IP back to her house ;). Unless she saves logs on her router about who connected it to, your fine...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bigjohnson

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First the legality is sort of a gray area. Second, if it's a relative just get permission, then it's 100% a-ok. Finally, I would have them secure it and share the password with you.
 

Alle_Gory

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No. You can always play stupid if it were.

Also, what happens if she wises up and password protects it?

You're out of internet.
 

bigjohnson

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Dude, 1st it's a relative so unless it's a pretty screwed up family it should be fine, and show me where it's been legally tested and approved in SCOTUS.
 
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