"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Question about when girls give eye contact

Popeyes

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If a girl is giving you extended eye contact in the hall she WANTS you to talk to her right? What goes through her head when you just walk by her and don't say anything? In this situation are they expecting you to stop them and talk to them or what?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DonJoseCantosie

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Yea, they want u to approach but some arent sure if u will or not, hence why some will seem shy/surprised...imagine if a girl approached u...wouldn't u be a lil surprised? lol
 

COD

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did u check a mirror, maybe you had something on your face.

Adhere to the 3 second rule........mutual eye contact lasting longer than 3 seconds, ALWAYS APPROACH AND SAY HI.

Level II-stick out your tongue

Level III-say hi and say I noticed you were checking me out, walk with me talk with me, I am (insert name) and your are................(pause) beautiful.

Ultimate level--Hey Do u have your cell phone, can I see it for a sec, dial your number hand it back, say thanx, walk away then text or call her....nuff said.

STARRING BACK AND WALKING BY AND SAYING NOTHING..........is a MISSED OPPORTUNITY.

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@ COD,

Hahahaha 'stick out your tongue',I'm gonna try that.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TruthHurts

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Here it is.............

Popeyes said:
If a girl is giving you extended eye contact in the hall she WANTS you to talk to her right? What goes through her head when you just walk by her and don't say anything? In this situation are they expecting you to stop them and talk to them or what?

jeezes.... such an AFC.... here is what I do

Her... Looks me
Me... I say high, where from, what ur name. bla bla bla

approximate time to approach 5 seconds
approximate time to know if you got anything going on, under 1 min

done.. next
(note:while you sitting and analizing something that might not even be there, I would have already talked to 5 other women, i.e. potential friends...) keep in mind female friends are great, helps the cause...
 

Mjazz

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i dunno about number 2, thats some hugh grant romantic comedy crap, but those other 2 are nice
 

TruthHurts

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yes.. sticking out a tounge may work...i.e. if you do it in playfull way.. i.e. making a monkey face or something... then come up to her and say "did you find that attractive?, i think i need to work on my pick up lines" :) if she laughs and likes it your in....

also.. taking the cell phone and calling yourself to get called i.d. does work! :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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