"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Question about when girls give eye contact

Popeyes

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If a girl is giving you extended eye contact in the hall she WANTS you to talk to her right? What goes through her head when you just walk by her and don't say anything? In this situation are they expecting you to stop them and talk to them or what?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonJoseCantosie

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Yea, they want u to approach but some arent sure if u will or not, hence why some will seem shy/surprised...imagine if a girl approached u...wouldn't u be a lil surprised? lol
 

COD

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did u check a mirror, maybe you had something on your face.

Adhere to the 3 second rule........mutual eye contact lasting longer than 3 seconds, ALWAYS APPROACH AND SAY HI.

Level II-stick out your tongue

Level III-say hi and say I noticed you were checking me out, walk with me talk with me, I am (insert name) and your are................(pause) beautiful.

Ultimate level--Hey Do u have your cell phone, can I see it for a sec, dial your number hand it back, say thanx, walk away then text or call her....nuff said.

STARRING BACK AND WALKING BY AND SAYING NOTHING..........is a MISSED OPPORTUNITY.

M
 

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@ COD,

Hahahaha 'stick out your tongue',I'm gonna try that.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TruthHurts

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Here it is.............

Popeyes said:
If a girl is giving you extended eye contact in the hall she WANTS you to talk to her right? What goes through her head when you just walk by her and don't say anything? In this situation are they expecting you to stop them and talk to them or what?

jeezes.... such an AFC.... here is what I do

Her... Looks me
Me... I say high, where from, what ur name. bla bla bla

approximate time to approach 5 seconds
approximate time to know if you got anything going on, under 1 min

done.. next
(note:while you sitting and analizing something that might not even be there, I would have already talked to 5 other women, i.e. potential friends...) keep in mind female friends are great, helps the cause...
 

Mjazz

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i dunno about number 2, thats some hugh grant romantic comedy crap, but those other 2 are nice
 

TruthHurts

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yes.. sticking out a tounge may work...i.e. if you do it in playfull way.. i.e. making a monkey face or something... then come up to her and say "did you find that attractive?, i think i need to work on my pick up lines" :) if she laughs and likes it your in....

also.. taking the cell phone and calling yourself to get called i.d. does work! :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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