"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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VikingKing

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So this is my 2nd try at college, well for the electrical engineering program. I successfully completed the welding program after high school. Actually had a very good job, which of course i ended up failing due to substance abuse.

Before I flunked out twice, because I always ended up wanting to play video games, eat, drink, smoke pot and **** my gf at the time or wack off. I was basically codependent and she was the enabler. Any way none of this is related.

Well I'm at school every day tying all the loose ends with financial aid, getting my financial awarded, which still hasn't happened yet, so I can't actually register for my classes unless i pay up front, but im broke so thats not going to happen.

But here is my actual question, especially here at school, people always seek me out for help. Like to find where a building is, or a question about financial aid, how, and when to buy books.

Even one time I was sitting downtown and people will just approach me to ask me for advice about something.

On one hand this can be considered nurturing a beta (feminine Trait). But the way I look at it, they are looking for some guidance or leadership, and people only seek guidance from some one they consider of higher value.

Oh and I only help these people out because I've really had nothing better to do at the time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Its funny, I have the exact same experience. The only thing I can say for sure is that you seem "approachable". That's a good thing. Whether it means they look up to you or they are unthreatened by you, I dunno.
^This, exactly.

You are approachable. It's not really a high or low value thing.

It's a good thing and nothing to worry about.

It means you don't look like a serial killer lol.
 
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