"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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VikingKing

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So this is my 2nd try at college, well for the electrical engineering program. I successfully completed the welding program after high school. Actually had a very good job, which of course i ended up failing due to substance abuse.

Before I flunked out twice, because I always ended up wanting to play video games, eat, drink, smoke pot and **** my gf at the time or wack off. I was basically codependent and she was the enabler. Any way none of this is related.

Well I'm at school every day tying all the loose ends with financial aid, getting my financial awarded, which still hasn't happened yet, so I can't actually register for my classes unless i pay up front, but im broke so thats not going to happen.

But here is my actual question, especially here at school, people always seek me out for help. Like to find where a building is, or a question about financial aid, how, and when to buy books.

Even one time I was sitting downtown and people will just approach me to ask me for advice about something.

On one hand this can be considered nurturing a beta (feminine Trait). But the way I look at it, they are looking for some guidance or leadership, and people only seek guidance from some one they consider of higher value.

Oh and I only help these people out because I've really had nothing better to do at the time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Its funny, I have the exact same experience. The only thing I can say for sure is that you seem "approachable". That's a good thing. Whether it means they look up to you or they are unthreatened by you, I dunno.
^This, exactly.

You are approachable. It's not really a high or low value thing.

It's a good thing and nothing to worry about.

It means you don't look like a serial killer lol.
 
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