“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So this is my 2nd try at college, well for the electrical engineering program. I successfully completed the welding program after high school. Actually had a very good job, which of course i ended up failing due to substance abuse.

Before I flunked out twice, because I always ended up wanting to play video games, eat, drink, smoke pot and **** my gf at the time or wack off. I was basically codependent and she was the enabler. Any way none of this is related.

Well I'm at school every day tying all the loose ends with financial aid, getting my financial awarded, which still hasn't happened yet, so I can't actually register for my classes unless i pay up front, but im broke so thats not going to happen.

But here is my actual question, especially here at school, people always seek me out for help. Like to find where a building is, or a question about financial aid, how, and when to buy books.

Even one time I was sitting downtown and people will just approach me to ask me for advice about something.

On one hand this can be considered nurturing a beta (feminine Trait). But the way I look at it, they are looking for some guidance or leadership, and people only seek guidance from some one they consider of higher value.

Oh and I only help these people out because I've really had nothing better to do at the time.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Its funny, I have the exact same experience. The only thing I can say for sure is that you seem "approachable". That's a good thing. Whether it means they look up to you or they are unthreatened by you, I dunno.
^This, exactly.

You are approachable. It's not really a high or low value thing.

It's a good thing and nothing to worry about.

It means you don't look like a serial killer lol.
 
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