"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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VikingKing

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So this is my 2nd try at college, well for the electrical engineering program. I successfully completed the welding program after high school. Actually had a very good job, which of course i ended up failing due to substance abuse.

Before I flunked out twice, because I always ended up wanting to play video games, eat, drink, smoke pot and **** my gf at the time or wack off. I was basically codependent and she was the enabler. Any way none of this is related.

Well I'm at school every day tying all the loose ends with financial aid, getting my financial awarded, which still hasn't happened yet, so I can't actually register for my classes unless i pay up front, but im broke so thats not going to happen.

But here is my actual question, especially here at school, people always seek me out for help. Like to find where a building is, or a question about financial aid, how, and when to buy books.

Even one time I was sitting downtown and people will just approach me to ask me for advice about something.

On one hand this can be considered nurturing a beta (feminine Trait). But the way I look at it, they are looking for some guidance or leadership, and people only seek guidance from some one they consider of higher value.

Oh and I only help these people out because I've really had nothing better to do at the time.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Its funny, I have the exact same experience. The only thing I can say for sure is that you seem "approachable". That's a good thing. Whether it means they look up to you or they are unthreatened by you, I dunno.
^This, exactly.

You are approachable. It's not really a high or low value thing.

It's a good thing and nothing to worry about.

It means you don't look like a serial killer lol.
 
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