"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Question about text message from an ex

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So I have been ****ing around with an ex recently. We spent a few days together, I spent the night, we ****ed a few times, its been a while since I did her, so damn the sex was good.

Anyways, I have no plans on getting back together, we are just hanging out with no strings I guess you could say.

However the other night, she text messaged me asking if I was dating anyone currently?

What do you guys make of this? How should I reply, lie and say no or just say yes. I worry that if she knows I am banging other women, she might not **** anymore.

Need Advice! Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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tell her it is none of her business/ask her why she wants to know. clearly the sex has gotten too emotional for her (this happens in all f*ck buddy relationships) and she wants a relationship again.
 
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Well basically what I did was reply with "why do you care"?

She text back "I just would like to know".

So I replied with "not really". Somewhat vague but a complete no lol.
 
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Originally posted by blueangel83
Response from a female:

Your ex wants to date you and eventually hope to get back with you.
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Ding ding.

Why else would a girl ask if you were dating?

If she didn't want to get into a relationship.. she wouldn't bother to ask.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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stay the fvck away from ex's. found yourself a new normal girl. Enough said.

Once and for all....

Once shes an ex she is done forever. Shes an ex for a reason, keep it that way.
 
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are you dating anyone?

If yes= yes

if no= no

everything doesn' thave to be a mind game.

If you feel you have to "lie" about having a GF, then you are putting the value on having a GF, not on yourself.
 
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