"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Question about text message from an ex

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Bigbuttlover

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So I have been ****ing around with an ex recently. We spent a few days together, I spent the night, we ****ed a few times, its been a while since I did her, so damn the sex was good.

Anyways, I have no plans on getting back together, we are just hanging out with no strings I guess you could say.

However the other night, she text messaged me asking if I was dating anyone currently?

What do you guys make of this? How should I reply, lie and say no or just say yes. I worry that if she knows I am banging other women, she might not **** anymore.

Need Advice! Thanks
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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tell her it is none of her business/ask her why she wants to know. clearly the sex has gotten too emotional for her (this happens in all f*ck buddy relationships) and she wants a relationship again.
 
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Well basically what I did was reply with "why do you care"?

She text back "I just would like to know".

So I replied with "not really". Somewhat vague but a complete no lol.
 
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Originally posted by blueangel83
Response from a female:

Your ex wants to date you and eventually hope to get back with you.
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Ding ding.

Why else would a girl ask if you were dating?

If she didn't want to get into a relationship.. she wouldn't bother to ask.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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stay the fvck away from ex's. found yourself a new normal girl. Enough said.

Once and for all....

Once shes an ex she is done forever. Shes an ex for a reason, keep it that way.
 
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are you dating anyone?

If yes= yes

if no= no

everything doesn' thave to be a mind game.

If you feel you have to "lie" about having a GF, then you are putting the value on having a GF, not on yourself.
 
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