"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Question about text message from an ex

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Bigbuttlover

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So I have been ****ing around with an ex recently. We spent a few days together, I spent the night, we ****ed a few times, its been a while since I did her, so damn the sex was good.

Anyways, I have no plans on getting back together, we are just hanging out with no strings I guess you could say.

However the other night, she text messaged me asking if I was dating anyone currently?

What do you guys make of this? How should I reply, lie and say no or just say yes. I worry that if she knows I am banging other women, she might not **** anymore.

Need Advice! Thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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tell her it is none of her business/ask her why she wants to know. clearly the sex has gotten too emotional for her (this happens in all f*ck buddy relationships) and she wants a relationship again.
 
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Well basically what I did was reply with "why do you care"?

She text back "I just would like to know".

So I replied with "not really". Somewhat vague but a complete no lol.
 
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Originally posted by blueangel83
Response from a female:

Your ex wants to date you and eventually hope to get back with you.
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Ding ding.

Why else would a girl ask if you were dating?

If she didn't want to get into a relationship.. she wouldn't bother to ask.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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stay the fvck away from ex's. found yourself a new normal girl. Enough said.

Once and for all....

Once shes an ex she is done forever. Shes an ex for a reason, keep it that way.
 
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are you dating anyone?

If yes= yes

if no= no

everything doesn' thave to be a mind game.

If you feel you have to "lie" about having a GF, then you are putting the value on having a GF, not on yourself.
 
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