"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have gone on 2 dates with an HB8 - the last one resulted in heavy making out and some groping. Planning to invite her to my place this weekend.

I swapped a couple of text messages next day (after date #2) but my last message was unanswered. Don't want to come across needy by texting/calling now except to ask her out again.

Assuming 2 consecutive dates are on weekends, how do you guys maintain contact? Do you guys typically go NC after a date and then make plans like wednesday etc for the weekend? or do you keep in touch and talk about things you did / some incidents from the date to keep you in her mind?
This is an online date, and it just bothers me that the longer I am out of her mind, she might meet "better" prospects online and flake (we all know how competitive that part is).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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any suggestions here? Basically wanted to see how you guys recommend keeping the momentum going after 1-2 dates without sounding too needy. this girl's IL is pretty high but she doesn't initiate convo herself during the week...thanks!
 
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wait another day(after you sent text) then ask her out for the weekend.

If the IL is there, she'll accept.
 
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You can't expect much from a chick off a dating website. It's best suggested to hit it and quite it. Sure some are hot but assured she will and like other guys as well. Women from pof and okCupid are temporary only.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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