“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Question about subsequent dates....

mark123

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I have gone on 2 dates with an HB8 - the last one resulted in heavy making out and some groping. Planning to invite her to my place this weekend.

I swapped a couple of text messages next day (after date #2) but my last message was unanswered. Don't want to come across needy by texting/calling now except to ask her out again.

Assuming 2 consecutive dates are on weekends, how do you guys maintain contact? Do you guys typically go NC after a date and then make plans like wednesday etc for the weekend? or do you keep in touch and talk about things you did / some incidents from the date to keep you in her mind?
This is an online date, and it just bothers me that the longer I am out of her mind, she might meet "better" prospects online and flake (we all know how competitive that part is).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mark123

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any suggestions here? Basically wanted to see how you guys recommend keeping the momentum going after 1-2 dates without sounding too needy. this girl's IL is pretty high but she doesn't initiate convo herself during the week...thanks!
 
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pdx1138

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wait another day(after you sent text) then ask her out for the weekend.

If the IL is there, she'll accept.
 

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You can't expect much from a chick off a dating website. It's best suggested to hit it and quite it. Sure some are hot but assured she will and like other guys as well. Women from pof and okCupid are temporary only.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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