"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What's up...DJ,
I have been dating a girl for over a year...I can tell she loves me to death...She's always doing things for me and buying me things...We laugh together and have great conversations..etc..etc....but she told me something today which got me to thinking...She told me that I don't think we could be together if the sex was not so incredible...So, I told her if thats all you care about then I won't do anything else for you except have sex...She was like no..I like everything you do for me including good sex...She said anyone I plan on marrying I have to have good sex with that person...She tells me all the time how much she wants me to marry her...Anyways...What do you all think of her comment?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kineti[C]harm

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She's a keeper. Not only does she got balls admitting something most people think, she loves sex too and does alot of stuff for you.
 

Trance

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I think she's a ninpho, just keep her horny for you making diferent stuff, and you'll be a lucky happy bastard haha ^^
 

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What makes sex really good with someone isn't just about what goes on in bed. It's what goes on in the rest of your time with her that makes a lot of the difference.
 

DJmonster

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She told you the sex you two have is incredible! Way to go man. Keep up the good work, just don't let it go to your head. : ) Also, she indirectly told you she wants to marry you. (like you said)

break down of the ******** she spoke:
you+her = incredible sex
incredible sex = marriage
therefore, you + her = marriage

that was an easy one. Sometimes the interpretations require so much math and logic I just start laughing uncontrollably. :p ..... My gf doesn't think its funny, but its the only way I can cope :(
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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