"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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question about pregnancy

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I was wondering if I have anything to worry about here. I recently had sex with this girl I met. I used a condom but when she got off of me the condom slid off of me and remained inside her, until she pulled it out.

She said she had her tubes tied, or burned or whatever they do, after she had a kid. I was just wondering how affective that method is. I was wondering if I could even do without the condom at all, or if it would matter since she had that surgical thing done.
 

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If she had a btl, you're probably ok, and that's what it sounds like from what she said. Don't lose any sleep over this with regard to pregnancy (IF she's telling the truth. Another whole thing.) STDs, on the other hand, are another matter.
 

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I was wondering if I could even do without the condom at all, or if it would matter since she had that surgical thing done.

Yeah, if you trust her not to lie, then the condom is not necessary as birth control. As for STDs, it's your call. Condoms don't keep you from getting skin viruses like hpv, herpes, and molluscum. They do help prevent the rarer, but more serious STDs like hiv and hepatitis.
 

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Cool, that really makes me feel better for I do not need to have a young un yet. Thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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what i find odd is the fact that she is not married, under 25 and has only one child and she found an insurance company that would tie her tubes now.
i know you can not have the procedure done under 21 years of age.
i know that in the state of alabama you must have two live children and in the state of kentucky you must have three live children to do the procedure.
most doctors will not let you get them tied if you are unmarried, as you will want to have more children when you get married.
 
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