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Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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question about pregnancy

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I was wondering if I have anything to worry about here. I recently had sex with this girl I met. I used a condom but when she got off of me the condom slid off of me and remained inside her, until she pulled it out.

She said she had her tubes tied, or burned or whatever they do, after she had a kid. I was just wondering how affective that method is. I was wondering if I could even do without the condom at all, or if it would matter since she had that surgical thing done.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If she had a btl, you're probably ok, and that's what it sounds like from what she said. Don't lose any sleep over this with regard to pregnancy (IF she's telling the truth. Another whole thing.) STDs, on the other hand, are another matter.
 

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I was wondering if I could even do without the condom at all, or if it would matter since she had that surgical thing done.

Yeah, if you trust her not to lie, then the condom is not necessary as birth control. As for STDs, it's your call. Condoms don't keep you from getting skin viruses like hpv, herpes, and molluscum. They do help prevent the rarer, but more serious STDs like hiv and hepatitis.
 

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Cool, that really makes me feel better for I do not need to have a young un yet. Thanks
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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what i find odd is the fact that she is not married, under 25 and has only one child and she found an insurance company that would tie her tubes now.
i know you can not have the procedure done under 21 years of age.
i know that in the state of alabama you must have two live children and in the state of kentucky you must have three live children to do the procedure.
most doctors will not let you get them tied if you are unmarried, as you will want to have more children when you get married.
 
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