"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I personally don't think you need transplants or to shave it off based on what I can see in that pic. You seem to have a full head of hair.

FYI most women don't care if a guy is losing his hair unless he does some kind of Trump combover.
 

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And to answer your question. Yes, it matters (just not as significantly as you may think). Everything matters. Maximize your potential.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Richard, you honestly are not a bad looking dude. Don't shave your hair off. Nothing is wrong with your hair from the picture. You have an attractive face, deep set eyes and a refined nose. You are NOT overweight, but you are height/weight proportional. So having said all that I think you work on style/manner of dress with regard to your appearance (I realize selfies at the job site are not going to be the epitome of style - nor should they be)...and continue working on your social skills. Your business experiences are going to assist some with building social skills...and so will chatting up various women as you have been doing at the venues you go out to as well as the working girls you interact with.

In short I think you are making progress. Seriously. Positive progress.
 
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Richard, you honestly are not a bad looking dude. Don't shave your hair off. Nothing is wrong with your hair from the picture. You have an attractive face, deep set eyes and a refined nose. You are NOT overweight, but you are height/weight proportional. So having said all that I think you work on style/manner of dress with regard to your appearance (I realize selfies at the job site are not going to be the epitome of style - nor should they be)...and continue working on your social skills. Your business experiences are going to assist some with building social skills...and so will chatting up various women as you have been doing at the venues you go out to as well as the working girls you interact with.

In short I think you are making progress. Seriously. Positive progress.
Lol. The working girls.
 
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Richard, you honestly are not a bad looking dude. Don't shave your hair off. Nothing is wrong with your hair from the picture. You have an attractive face, deep set eyes and a refined nose. You are NOT overweight, but you are height/weight proportional. So having said all that I think you work on style/manner of dress with regard to your appearance (I realize selfies at the job site are not going to be the epitome of style - nor should they be)...and continue working on your social skills. Your business experiences are going to assist some with building social skills...and so will chatting up various women as you have been doing at the venues you go out to as well as the working girls you interact with.

In short I think you are making progress. Seriously. Positive progress.
If I'm not a bad looking dude, then why do I not get anything? Especially online where it's all looks based?
 

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If I'm not a bad looking dude, then why do I not get anything? Especially online where it's all looks based?
Cause your complaining and it's messing up your head. Stop complaining and do something about it. You need to get social. No games, no tricks, just work on being more social make new friends.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You dont need to shave, not at all actually if you didnt introduce the topic, nobody would have considered a case of hairloss.
 
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