"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Question about Friendster

BigDawg

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Do any of you have accounts on Friendster? I realize it's not an online dating website, but I wanted to get some opinions of people in my peer group (i.e., youse guyz).

Thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Chrispy

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Hi - I am on it but use it only to keep up with people I already know. I try to hit conversations with people but you're better off going on match.com (though some here may argue against that!).

Still, the message boards have many ideas and it's good only for entertainment.
 

TooColdUlrick

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is friendster still around? myspace took everyone away, en masse.
 

BigDawg

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Thanks for the input. I had gotten an invitation to join friendster from a girl who rejected me a year ago. WTF? When she rejected me, she said she still wanted to be friends with me, whatever that means.

Anyway, I was curious about the website and I've decided that joining it is a waste of my time. Besides, if Myspace has taken most of the people away from friendster, then that's even more reason to stay away.
 

Ricky

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Big Dawg, good to see you again. How goes thiings?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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