"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Themanthatcan

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Raikojo17 said:
k my question is. is it cool to call girls "baby" if u not goin with them yet. even if r joking? and how do u flirt with a girl who is quiet an not silly without soundin like a desperate whimp?
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I tend to call them that alot.Like my signature quote: "Wow,______ you look really beautiful.In fact, there's only one thing that could make you look any better..........me standing next to you,baby!".If you overuse it though you'll come off as concided.Use it sparingly.
 
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Calling girls by nick names like baby,sweety,honey and all that. It is like a spice. Just like Themanthatcan said. Use it sparingly. Assuming that you have built trust with this girl. Otherwise you look needy and weak
 
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yuck! baby...you kidding me...so played out...this coming from what girls think

why would u want to call her baby right off the bat, even if its a flirt.

I say hold off from saying it untill things get a little bit more heated up between u 2...then you can be like "wow baby, ...."

See the less you use flattery words the better/more of a responce youll get when you do use them.

Also if you say baby, baby a lot your going to come off ghey :nervous:

therefor its best if you hold off from using such words, plus in my experience it makes girls work harder just so you can tell them such.
 
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