"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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question about flirtin

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Themanthatcan

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Raikojo17 said:
k my question is. is it cool to call girls "baby" if u not goin with them yet. even if r joking? and how do u flirt with a girl who is quiet an not silly without soundin like a desperate whimp?

I tend to call them that alot.Like my signature quote: "Wow,______ you look really beautiful.In fact, there's only one thing that could make you look any better..........me standing next to you,baby!".If you overuse it though you'll come off as concided.Use it sparingly.
 

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Calling girls by nick names like baby,sweety,honey and all that. It is like a spice. Just like Themanthatcan said. Use it sparingly. Assuming that you have built trust with this girl. Otherwise you look needy and weak
 

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yuck! baby...you kidding me...so played out...this coming from what girls think

why would u want to call her baby right off the bat, even if its a flirt.

I say hold off from saying it untill things get a little bit more heated up between u 2...then you can be like "wow baby, ...."

See the less you use flattery words the better/more of a responce youll get when you do use them.

Also if you say baby, baby a lot your going to come off ghey :nervous:

therefor its best if you hold off from using such words, plus in my experience it makes girls work harder just so you can tell them such.
 
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