"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Question about first look

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Hey, I appreciate any insight I get here.

Just wondering if there is anything to this. I get smiles sometimes from women, but, what I noticed is more then often when I make eye contact with a women for the first time she will immediately start touching her hair a few times or something, or fix herself.....but this happens a lot as opposed to smiling and what not. I always thought there was nothing to it, but, it happens more often then not so I'm wondering if there is anyting to this o knowledgeable one's.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Download the DJ Bible bro. If I remember correctly it actually mentions situations specifically like this.
 
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Sure...anyone got a link? I put it in the search but didn't really find it
 
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So, like what is really your question??? Do you have a hard time understanding HO choosing signs?
 
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Looking back at my first post...I didn't ask a question, heh. But yeah, I guess that would be it SM......
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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There should be a link inside the "How to use this site" sticky thread. There is another link, but I mention that thread just because it's a useful thread to read.
 
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