"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Question about first look

IKO69

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Hey, I appreciate any insight I get here.

Just wondering if there is anything to this. I get smiles sometimes from women, but, what I noticed is more then often when I make eye contact with a women for the first time she will immediately start touching her hair a few times or something, or fix herself.....but this happens a lot as opposed to smiling and what not. I always thought there was nothing to it, but, it happens more often then not so I'm wondering if there is anyting to this o knowledgeable one's.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Download the DJ Bible bro. If I remember correctly it actually mentions situations specifically like this.
 

IKO69

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Sure...anyone got a link? I put it in the search but didn't really find it
 

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So, like what is really your question??? Do you have a hard time understanding HO choosing signs?
 

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Looking back at my first post...I didn't ask a question, heh. But yeah, I guess that would be it SM......
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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There should be a link inside the "How to use this site" sticky thread. There is another link, but I mention that thread just because it's a useful thread to read.
 
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