"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Question about first look

IKO69

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Hey, I appreciate any insight I get here.

Just wondering if there is anything to this. I get smiles sometimes from women, but, what I noticed is more then often when I make eye contact with a women for the first time she will immediately start touching her hair a few times or something, or fix herself.....but this happens a lot as opposed to smiling and what not. I always thought there was nothing to it, but, it happens more often then not so I'm wondering if there is anyting to this o knowledgeable one's.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Download the DJ Bible bro. If I remember correctly it actually mentions situations specifically like this.
 

IKO69

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Sure...anyone got a link? I put it in the search but didn't really find it
 

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So, like what is really your question??? Do you have a hard time understanding HO choosing signs?
 

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Looking back at my first post...I didn't ask a question, heh. But yeah, I guess that would be it SM......
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There should be a link inside the "How to use this site" sticky thread. There is another link, but I mention that thread just because it's a useful thread to read.
 
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