"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rival

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Hey just wanted to ask you guys about something I've been wondering about facebook.

Do you guys like girls pictures? And if you did go about commenting on one..what do you normally say?

Obv. there are tons of beta/orbs that are like

So Hot/Gorgeous/Stunning etc.

How do you go about standing out/grabbing their attention, if you do at all.

Thanks in advance
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Eph

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Don't comment, don't like. Women get enough attention, period (a negative reaction is still attention btw), so don't be another beta giving it to her. And if you even try to say anything negative, whether you're joking or not, you'll get attacked by a swarm of white knights.

So, it's best not to say anything. Do your talking offline. Or let your pictures speak for you. She'll notice if you've got 20 people liking your shirtless selfie.
 

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Eph said:
Don't comment, don't like. Women get enough attention, period (a negative reaction is still attention btw), so don't be another beta giving it to her. And if you even try to say anything negative, whether you're joking or not, you'll get attacked by a swarm of white knights.

So, it's best not to say anything. Do your talking offline. Or let your pictures speak for you. She'll notice if you've got 20 people liking your shirtless selfie.
Word, repped

I feel the same just wanted to bounce it off someone else. I have had girls ask my why I didnt like there photos lol.
 

European-DJ

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Eph said:
Don't comment, don't like. Women get enough attention, period (a negative reaction is still attention btw), so don't be another beta giving it to her. And if you even try to say anything negative, whether you're joking or not, you'll get attacked by a swarm of white knights.

So, it's best not to say anything. Do your talking offline. Or let your pictures speak for you. She'll notice if you've got 20 people liking your shirtless selfie.
I will both agree, and at the same time disagree, on your answer.

It depends on your persona and the way you are, IF you are stalking her every night, always online on Facebook and so forth, then follow the above advice, if however you have multiple plates, less active on Facebook, and play the role of the "mysterious guy with lots if secrets" this is how you do:

When she puts up a new picture, NEVER like it immediately, and never like the one she just put up. Let the "swarm" of likes cool down, and wait a couple of hours, the go back in either her profile photos/"random album", and like an older picture. This will defiantly make her notice you, and make her wonder why you liked her old picture, and not her own.

Trust me on this one, it may seem dumb, but I get a reaction 9/10 times. Either she like back one iof my pictures (then you know it's on for sure), or else she writes me on the chat, just some random message.

However!! This will only work as long as Facebook isn't your fulltime hobby, as long as you don't spam these girls every day, as long as you aren't posting Facebook updates and so forth - AS LONG AS YOU DO, what you should be doing, this WILL work.

If you are a full time Facebook stalker, then stick to Eph's advice, which is very good, BUT a passive move.

Regards,
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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