"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Question about facebook

Rival

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Hey just wanted to ask you guys about something I've been wondering about facebook.

Do you guys like girls pictures? And if you did go about commenting on one..what do you normally say?

Obv. there are tons of beta/orbs that are like

So Hot/Gorgeous/Stunning etc.

How do you go about standing out/grabbing their attention, if you do at all.

Thanks in advance
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Eph

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Don't comment, don't like. Women get enough attention, period (a negative reaction is still attention btw), so don't be another beta giving it to her. And if you even try to say anything negative, whether you're joking or not, you'll get attacked by a swarm of white knights.

So, it's best not to say anything. Do your talking offline. Or let your pictures speak for you. She'll notice if you've got 20 people liking your shirtless selfie.
 

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Eph said:
Don't comment, don't like. Women get enough attention, period (a negative reaction is still attention btw), so don't be another beta giving it to her. And if you even try to say anything negative, whether you're joking or not, you'll get attacked by a swarm of white knights.

So, it's best not to say anything. Do your talking offline. Or let your pictures speak for you. She'll notice if you've got 20 people liking your shirtless selfie.
Word, repped

I feel the same just wanted to bounce it off someone else. I have had girls ask my why I didnt like there photos lol.
 

European-DJ

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Eph said:
Don't comment, don't like. Women get enough attention, period (a negative reaction is still attention btw), so don't be another beta giving it to her. And if you even try to say anything negative, whether you're joking or not, you'll get attacked by a swarm of white knights.

So, it's best not to say anything. Do your talking offline. Or let your pictures speak for you. She'll notice if you've got 20 people liking your shirtless selfie.
I will both agree, and at the same time disagree, on your answer.

It depends on your persona and the way you are, IF you are stalking her every night, always online on Facebook and so forth, then follow the above advice, if however you have multiple plates, less active on Facebook, and play the role of the "mysterious guy with lots if secrets" this is how you do:

When she puts up a new picture, NEVER like it immediately, and never like the one she just put up. Let the "swarm" of likes cool down, and wait a couple of hours, the go back in either her profile photos/"random album", and like an older picture. This will defiantly make her notice you, and make her wonder why you liked her old picture, and not her own.

Trust me on this one, it may seem dumb, but I get a reaction 9/10 times. Either she like back one iof my pictures (then you know it's on for sure), or else she writes me on the chat, just some random message.

However!! This will only work as long as Facebook isn't your fulltime hobby, as long as you don't spam these girls every day, as long as you aren't posting Facebook updates and so forth - AS LONG AS YOU DO, what you should be doing, this WILL work.

If you are a full time Facebook stalker, then stick to Eph's advice, which is very good, BUT a passive move.

Regards,
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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