"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Question about eye contact

Snowman23

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I smile at girls all the time, and they smile back. Most people would think that they are interested. But what are they going to do, frown at me? lol. It's hard to gauge it. Any tips?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A smile is a good sign, but if they're nice they might just smile to everyone. A better indicator is prolonged eye-contact, not just a quick glance. Or a couple times within a setting or short period.
 

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I heard once that if a chick flashes her cans at you she is interested, and that now would be a good time to approach her......unless of course, ......she has a c cup or smaller
 

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I heard once that if a chick flashes her cans at you she is interested, and that now would be a good time to approach her......unless of course, ......she has a c cup or smaller
haa haa haa!.......nice!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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