"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Question about crushes.

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Hey guys, I have been to this site in the past, and I knew I could come here with a story/question.

I am an 18 year old freshman in college. I am a theatre major, so when we are doing shows, the department gets fairly close since we spend almost everyday with each other.

Recently, a girl whom I have no feelings for told me that she has a crush on me. She says that I am one of the cutest guys in the department, and that she would like to date me. The thing is, I can never see myself with this girl.

Another dilemma I run into is that I have a crush on her roommate. I could never make any moves because she had always had a boyfriend. Now she has broken up with her boyfriend, but her roommate has a crush on me.

The last piece, is that she is 21 and I am only 18. I am not sure how she feels about dating a younger guy, and I am wondering what I should do in my situation.

Any helpful tips, or advice would be greatly appreciated.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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For starters, talking to the this girl you have a crush on would be a good start.

I don't know what other advice you are looking for.
 

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Threesome. (thought I would be the first to mention that....)

You should know what you should be doing. You like a chick, go for the damn chick. End of topic.
 

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I don't want to pursue this one girl, and have the other get mad. That would be bad since they are roommates.

But I pretty sure I am coming down with a case of oneitis.
 

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just pursue her. after all you're both into drama. get it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ActorMan said:
I don't want to pursue this one girl, and have the other get mad. That would be bad since they are roommates.
This sounds like it's coming out of a little girl's mouth. You're not a woman, man up. If you care about what everyone thinks then you're going to live one miserable life.
 

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I figure if I piss the one off, the one I like will see her mad, and in turn think I am a jerk.
 

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I'm going to b!tch slap you...

ActorMan said:
Hey guys, I have been to this site in the past, and I knew I could come here with a story/question.

I am an 18 year old freshman in college. I am a theatre major, so when we are doing shows, the department gets fairly close since we spend almost everyday with each other.

OK READY - THIS IS GOING TO BE PURE EVIL: act like a girl that has a guy who has just confessed a crush whom she doesn't like - OMG, the horns!!! THEYRE COMING OUT OF MY HEAD...hahahahaahhaahaaa

Recently, a girl whom I have no feelings for told me that she has a crush on me. She says that I am one of the cutest guys in the department, and that she would like to date me. The thing is, I can never see myself with this girl.

Be like...wow, I've been thinking about it...and I'd like to know a little more about you before I decide if we can have a future together...you SEEM cool, but I'd really need to get to know you better to understand what kind of person you are.

Then have her cook you dinner, clean your dorm room, buy you clothes, suck your dihk, wait for you at home while you phuk other girls - er I mean studying - then suck your dihk again, meet all her girlfriends, have her tell these great stories about you massively social proofing you, e.g. OMG, he's so hot, I love him so much, he's the greatest...NOT LIKE ANY GUY I'VE EVER MET....etc....it will be great - you'll love it;


Another dilemma I run into is that I have a crush on her roommate. I could never make any moves because she had always had a boyfriend. Now she has broken up with her boyfriend, but her roommate has a crush on me.

DO NOT Phuk-Up and hit on her roomie...that opportunity will present itself by virtue of your "dating" - and I do mean "dating" - not exclusive, because she has to prove that she is worth it by buying you things, cooking you dinner, doing a threesome with her roomie, etc... GET IT!!!! OH MAN, I AM ENVIOUS....

The last piece, is that she is 21 and I am only 18. I am not sure how she feels about dating a younger guy, and I am wondering what I should do in my situation.

CLEARLY SHES OK WITH IT - I say work this chick - it will be a great experience...I see threesomes, dinners, gifts, and MANY cool things in your future my boy...

Any helpful tips, or advice would be greatly appreciated.
~ WildCard ~

Veritas Lux Mea
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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