"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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question about calling gf on phone

mongoose01

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gotta question everyone. i have a gf and we're pretty close (she says she loves me). there's something that bothers me about her though and i need some feedback.

when i call her on the phone (celly mostly), she usually either doesn't answer (she'll usually calls back a few minutes later), she's talking to so and so and has to call me back, or just has to call me back. this happens very often.

example for today:

i saw her this morning at 6 am (she drove back home). i haven't heard from her since. i called her around 3 or 4, but no answer. she never called back either. she had to attend a family reunion meeting, but i forgot what time that takes place.

i would think that someone that professes love and all that stuff would at least call you to see 'how ya doing' (today is sat). i know she knows i called (her cell has caller id), so why do you guys think she constantly does that? am i being an AFC pvssy or should i not just think about it. is she being the challenge by fvcking with me. the weird thing is, she pursued me? another thing: i can see her whenever i want.

tell me what you guys think!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Caveman

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I agree with slickster.

Are you calling her too often? Like the freak bf that's checkin her every move?
Or mabe she is on the hbforum where girls get the advice to never answer the phone directly esp if it is their bf :D
 

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This has happened to me far too many times....the girl suddenly has lost interest.....doesn't make you a priority like the way she once did....then later you find out there is someone else....you're in trouble man.

If she is your gf her IL should be high.
 

Genghis Juan

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Have you and the girl previously had "the talk" yet? Have you had sex yet?

Usually, if people are an "item", the girl will usually pump up the drama and eventually make you miserable, then dump you.

However, if the two of you are just dating, then either she is just not ready to lay the meat hooks in you, or she is just not interested in you, or is losing interest in you.

Be careful dude.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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