"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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question about calling a girl..

dip

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Yeah, so i met a girl at some carnival thru a friend about 2 years ago( i was a loser back then so im sure she had no intrest in me)...but i had her screen name and talked to her online once in a while for about a year(yes, i was an AFC)...so anyway...i got a new screen name and i never talked to her on it...so basically i didnt talk to her for 6-12 months.

So anyway, im at the mall with my friend and we run into this same girl again...and she looks good(i might add that i fixed myself up ALOT and i looked much better then last time she saw me)...so im spittin my game to her, and she likes it (well i think she does) and we start flirting...shes grabbin my ass, i was grabbin hers...she sat next to me when we went to eat and i was using some good Kino. anyway, she has to leave with her friend, and i tell her to call me later that night

so she does call me, and we talk for a while...the next day she calls me at night around the same time....and we decide to chill the next day ( i would have made it a later day but i was busy for the rest of the week)...the next day comes, and she dosent pick up my phone call during the day...so i was thinking to myself "**** her"...but she calls me at night and said that she had a job interview during the day..

so then its thursday now, and she calls me but i was busy, so i said ill call her back...when i called back she didnt pick up...and i call again on friday durin the day and she dosent pick up eather...later that friday i run into her at the mall once again, and i ask why she didnt call me back she said osmething about being in the shower...whatever...i tell her to call me later at night

so she calls at like 2am and i dont pick up, i call her back on saturday in the afternoon and she was like "im at a bball tourney ill talk to u tomorrow" so now its sunday and she hasnt called...should i call her again or wait for her to call? and if she dosent call..just end it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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blienk

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This chick is either flakey or just plain retarded. Don't call her anymore; if she calls you proceed at your own risk of more flakiness.
 

blienk

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Originally posted by dip
when u say flakey...do u mean shady?
Flakey: a girl who shows obvious interest but never returns calls, or makes excuses to get out of dates. See synonyms at shady, sketchy, attention wh*re, sunshine girl, etc.
 

sitnam

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even if u do get a date, shes crazy. i mean she would know if she had a job interview and not have scheduled ur 1st date then. every single excuse she gave was bad. if she calls u then call her on her bs and stop talkin to her, unless u like crazy girls.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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paraguayandj

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hahahahaha. This is a complete mess:D
 

xomel

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call the girl and give her the oppertunity of talking to the most coolest person in the world if she doesnt appreciate the gift youve blessed her with then put her in the abyss with the rest of the girls that were and never are worth your time
 
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