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question about calling a girl..

dip

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Yeah, so i met a girl at some carnival thru a friend about 2 years ago( i was a loser back then so im sure she had no intrest in me)...but i had her screen name and talked to her online once in a while for about a year(yes, i was an AFC)...so anyway...i got a new screen name and i never talked to her on it...so basically i didnt talk to her for 6-12 months.

So anyway, im at the mall with my friend and we run into this same girl again...and she looks good(i might add that i fixed myself up ALOT and i looked much better then last time she saw me)...so im spittin my game to her, and she likes it (well i think she does) and we start flirting...shes grabbin my ass, i was grabbin hers...she sat next to me when we went to eat and i was using some good Kino. anyway, she has to leave with her friend, and i tell her to call me later that night

so she does call me, and we talk for a while...the next day she calls me at night around the same time....and we decide to chill the next day ( i would have made it a later day but i was busy for the rest of the week)...the next day comes, and she dosent pick up my phone call during the day...so i was thinking to myself "**** her"...but she calls me at night and said that she had a job interview during the day..

so then its thursday now, and she calls me but i was busy, so i said ill call her back...when i called back she didnt pick up...and i call again on friday durin the day and she dosent pick up eather...later that friday i run into her at the mall once again, and i ask why she didnt call me back she said osmething about being in the shower...whatever...i tell her to call me later at night

so she calls at like 2am and i dont pick up, i call her back on saturday in the afternoon and she was like "im at a bball tourney ill talk to u tomorrow" so now its sunday and she hasnt called...should i call her again or wait for her to call? and if she dosent call..just end it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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blienk

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This chick is either flakey or just plain retarded. Don't call her anymore; if she calls you proceed at your own risk of more flakiness.
 

blienk

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Originally posted by dip
when u say flakey...do u mean shady?
Flakey: a girl who shows obvious interest but never returns calls, or makes excuses to get out of dates. See synonyms at shady, sketchy, attention wh*re, sunshine girl, etc.
 

sitnam

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even if u do get a date, shes crazy. i mean she would know if she had a job interview and not have scheduled ur 1st date then. every single excuse she gave was bad. if she calls u then call her on her bs and stop talkin to her, unless u like crazy girls.
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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paraguayandj

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hahahahaha. This is a complete mess:D
 

xomel

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call the girl and give her the oppertunity of talking to the most coolest person in the world if she doesnt appreciate the gift youve blessed her with then put her in the abyss with the rest of the girls that were and never are worth your time
 
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