"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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as we all know it's good to cut off the carbs on the last meal before sleeping....but i just read that staying with protein and fat at breakfast is also good. because the fat burning cyclus started overnight would keep on burning fat if u dont eat carbs for breakfast.....
but i think u need energy for a good start in the day and to help ur muscles grow so what do u DJ's think??
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What's your activity level?

If you're going to be doing anything physically involved, you're going to want some carbs in the morning for energy. If you're just resting/rebuilding physically, then stick to proteins.
 

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im working out every 2nd day....and i play soccer 1-2 times per week....

If you're just resting/rebuilding physically, then stick to proteins.
i thought carbs are good for better muscle rebuilding/growth??

It's not about burning fat IN THE MOMENT, it's about a calorie deficit over a course of 24 hours.
hmm yes but if u are burning fat in EVERY moment u have calorie deficit for sure....and if u stick with proteins in the morning u are burning fat for sure! for the rest of the day a little calorie deficit with mainly carbs+proteins and all good??
 

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If you're bulking, load up some carbs for brekkie. If you're not bulking, load up less complex carbs - if you gain fat, just burn more off or take more carbs out of your diet throughout the day.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Eat carbs in the morning, if you trained the night before, your muscles will start using your protein stores for energy... (not good). feed em some carbs... then a complex carb through the day to keep you going (before 3pm).. then you can also have a meal containing carbs (not too much) within the first 30-40mins after a workout (weights)... carbs arent bad.. you just have to burn off as much as you eat. If you get your diest right, it is actually quite a simple process. I can drop 5 kgs in a week straight up, without losing "muscle mass". its not hard guys.
 

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Have carbs and protein in the morning for two main reasons...

1) Cortisol (at catabolic hormone) levels are highest in the morning and carbs help supress them

2) To give your body glycogen to use for the rest of the day

Morning is a good time to have your higher GI carbs.
 

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Originally posted by NEWBIE101
Have carbs and protein in the morning for two main reasons...

1) Cortisol (at catabolic hormone) levels are highest in the morning and carbs help supress them

2) To give your body glycogen to use for the rest of the day

Morning is a good time to have your higher GI carbs.
Great advice.
 

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Originally posted by dockta
then you can also have a meal containing carbs (not too much) within the first 30-40mins after a workout (weights)... carbs arent bad..
You have to have your biggest meal of the day after working out. "not too many" [carbs] is fooking stupid. All of you are fooking stupid. Stop giving advice.
 

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"not too many" means... not 5 bowls of Pasta. Balance the intake with protein.

Try to rectify your tunnel vision.... Puttz
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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