"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Question about body language

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dj_spain

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It is accepted that:

-Enthusiasm = Sign of confidence

-Excitement = Sign of being insecure

So when when talking with enthusiasm what do you do so people don't confuse your enthusiasm with excitement?

I've come across the idea of keeping relaxed posture while speaking with enthusiasm.The only problem is:
Could you come off as incongruent this way?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Are you proposing that confident people are never excited? I'd have to disagree... you can definitely be confident and excited at the same time. Excitement does not tranlate to being insecure... perhaps some of the ways that you manifest that excitement could be contrued as insecure, but the emotion itself is just that - an emotion.
 
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I've heard that it is not important to read her body language as much as it is to assume that she likes you. How do you interpret these signs when most women basically flirt with any guy they meet? How do you tell if they do actually like them or are just having fun?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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