"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Question about body language

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dj_spain

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It is accepted that:

-Enthusiasm = Sign of confidence

-Excitement = Sign of being insecure

So when when talking with enthusiasm what do you do so people don't confuse your enthusiasm with excitement?

I've come across the idea of keeping relaxed posture while speaking with enthusiasm.The only problem is:
Could you come off as incongruent this way?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Are you proposing that confident people are never excited? I'd have to disagree... you can definitely be confident and excited at the same time. Excitement does not tranlate to being insecure... perhaps some of the ways that you manifest that excitement could be contrued as insecure, but the emotion itself is just that - an emotion.
 
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I've heard that it is not important to read her body language as much as it is to assume that she likes you. How do you interpret these signs when most women basically flirt with any guy they meet? How do you tell if they do actually like them or are just having fun?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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