Okay reading the articles I see there is heavy emphasis on being "mysterious." and there is also heavy emphasis on being "happy" I am a very happy person. I laugh a lot, I talk to everybody, I joke around, and I love to have fun, played football and ran track (hs student). I do attract a lot of people to me, people like to hmu to hang out guys or girls and I do go get my fair share of girls, not to be ****y or anything. But I want more since I will be graduating and I won't be in the high school environment. I do not understand how to be "mysterious" I got the happy down, but I feel like happy people are not mysterious. Happy people have no aura of mystery because they share their happiness. Should I try and become "mysterious" or should I stick to just being a happy fun loving dude?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Question about being 'mysterious'
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