Okay reading the articles I see there is heavy emphasis on being "mysterious." and there is also heavy emphasis on being "happy" I am a very happy person. I laugh a lot, I talk to everybody, I joke around, and I love to have fun, played football and ran track (hs student). I do attract a lot of people to me, people like to hmu to hang out guys or girls and I do go get my fair share of girls, not to be ****y or anything. But I want more since I will be graduating and I won't be in the high school environment. I do not understand how to be "mysterious" I got the happy down, but I feel like happy people are not mysterious. Happy people have no aura of mystery because they share their happiness. Should I try and become "mysterious" or should I stick to just being a happy fun loving dude?
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Question about being 'mysterious'
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TillTheEndOfTime
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The following might be hard to believe, but, girls are really attracted to good looking guys. Being mysterious is just a bonus if she's a teenager or a very immature adult with the mind of a teenager.
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charm when you're around them, leave them wanting more, then go ghost. Pop back up later.....and repeat. Continue cycle.
Hampster's brain will be fried.
Hampster's brain will be fried.
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Dont create mystery on purpose. Youll come off looking like a try hard. Pretty much just be busy doing things in life(go to the gym, play golf/bball, take a martial arts class etc), girls will find ways to let their imagination run wild. Just dont spill your life story to a girl and tell her everything about you....let her find out on her own. This is the essence of mystery.
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There is only ONE important piece of being mysterious.
Just remember this one. Drop the others.
Never talk about which girls you like, want to F, have F-ed, have made out with, etc.
Keep your lovelife to yourself. Women like guys that are discreet and never kiss and tell. Make them wonder if your taken, gay, or secretly have five FWBs on the side.
The best naturals don't say jack shyte about women or sex.
So continue being a friendly guy, but know what not to talk about.
Change the subject or deflect if you have to.
HB: What's your deal? Do you have a gf? How many girls have you been with?
Natural guy: What's with all the questions? Next you're gonna take me in the interrogation room and ask me where I was on the night of the 14th lol.
Just remember this one. Drop the others.
Never talk about which girls you like, want to F, have F-ed, have made out with, etc.
Keep your lovelife to yourself. Women like guys that are discreet and never kiss and tell. Make them wonder if your taken, gay, or secretly have five FWBs on the side.
The best naturals don't say jack shyte about women or sex.
So continue being a friendly guy, but know what not to talk about.
Change the subject or deflect if you have to.
HB: What's your deal? Do you have a gf? How many girls have you been with?
Natural guy: What's with all the questions? Next you're gonna take me in the interrogation room and ask me where I was on the night of the 14th lol.
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With a user name like that you deserve to be mysterious.