"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Question About Ambushing

QuantumFool

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This post is related to the first one I made on SS.

My birthday's coming up in a few weeks and a drinking buddy called and asked me what my plans were. After I told him he warned me about that woman that brought me here.

I've been in total NC with her since I posted back in April. But he thinks she'll use the birthday as an excuse to worm her way back into my life. I assured him that she has no interest in me and vice versa. I'm confident about it. I'm not going to hear from her.

But he thinks she's been waiting for an opening to get back in. I told him I appreciate the concern but nothing's going to happen.

"I'm telling you it will," is what he kept saying.

Is this actually a thing? Where women wait patiently to ambush you after you move on? I haven't read anything like it on the forums.

He's not in her social circle so it's not like he has insider info. But he's ten years older than me and has been around the block a few times so I'm not just going to dismiss his warning.

Thoughts? Examples?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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QuantumFool

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Tictac said:
If you're decided about her, what does it matter?

With 150,000,000 women in the USA, some will be ambushers.
That's what I thought until my buddy got it into my head that I have something to worry about. I mean, it's a done deal as far as I'm concerned.
 

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Dear Quantum,
Ambush or not if you don't want her just put the Wagons in a circle and fight her off LOL.
 
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