"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I am in a situtation where there is a girl that I am trying not to talk to.

I know there are two ways to go about doing this:

1) Pick up the phone, be polite, and after a couple of mintues tell you that you are busy and get off of the phone.

2) do not pick up the phone all together.

Which one has a greater affect? If you pick up the phone, they will keep calling. If you don't pick up the phone, you are considered rude.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The real question iz WHY????

I don't get this forum:::
Either U foolz R vague as fVck or U feel U gotz 2 tell U're whole m*********** life story. Nobody carez & ask specificif but brief questions.
 

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simple question. That was not called for.


I DO care about this girl, otherwise I would not be asking. I have things to do, and I am trying to distance myself but what I am asking is do I want her to think that I don't care about her? Do I just want her to think that I am busy.

If you can't give a thoughful response, please don't respond at all.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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