"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Question about a weird situation with this plate

TheGambino

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I text back and forth with this broad for a couple of weeks, she suggested a meet up but I was busy after that asked her out but she kinda brung up something else so I just put her on the backburner since she didn't go for the bait when I asked her. She kept texting me after that.. and sending me snapchats.

So I was walking home, my buddy was on the other side of the street, I was telling him a funny story as the plate I text with passes him. She looks in my direction for a couple of seconds, I ignored her at that moment and kept brabbing to my friend. Then I turned around and called her name for 2 times. She didnt respond and kept walking with her dogg.

My buddy says at that moment 'she has foam plugs in' and I walked home.

I know this is kind of bullsh1t but I was asking myself should I text her hey didn't you hear me? or just complete silent/ghost until she reaches out to me

She is a plate that's low on the rotation but I just want to learn from these awkward situatons:up:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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alpha_ash

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I would have run up to her and talked to her right then and there. At least it makes it clear whether she is ignoring you or has plugs in her ear.
 

Nickface

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Stay ghost. There is rarely any situation when you should give the girl a chance to have the upper hand. You send any text/message and she may turn it around on you. Being low in the rotation should give you even more incentive to just lay low.
 
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