Question about a subject on DYD EBOOK

[para]

Hi,
First of all, English is not my mother tongue so sorry for the mistakes.
I'm reading Double your dating 2nd addition and I read something that was completely incomprehensible to me.
I don't know if i didn't understand it because of my English.
On page 57, David writes on the Attention these words:
"Women like attention. And interestingly enough, it's better to hint at the attention that you're giving them than to be too overt about it. If you say, "I was thinking about you earlier today, and I just wanted to mention that I really like the sound of your voice..." it's much more powerful than listening to them complain about something so they think you're paying attention. get it?"


on the one hand, David says that you shouldn't be too sincere with the fact that you have interest in her, and that you should hint on the attention and not say it; but on the other hand, he says that telling her that I like her voice is way better than listen to her. it's like he says that I should tell her that I like her, instead of making her wonder if I like her or not.


What did he meant?
Can you give me more examples in order to make it clear to me?

Sorry again about my English...

 

[sodbuster]

You can say I like the sound of your voice[3 second investment in her],but don't say "I need to be around you every second of the day, I want to marry you, worship you and be the father of your children" You are HINTING. By listening to her for hours on the phone, you are saying I have nothing better in life than to listen to you talk[you should have other things going on in your life].

If they know they own you, you'll be tossed in the closet with the rest of her old clothes. If she thinks you might be interested, you are like that nice dress in the window of the shop. She can't buy it yet,but she thinks about it often.

Dating/pickup guru's only offer advice on getting them-not keepping them. Keeping them? ask us here

 

[para]

Thank you!
I understand now.