"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hi,
First of all, English is not my mother tongue so sorry for the mistakes.
I'm reading Double your dating 2nd addition and I read something that was completely incomprehensible to me.
I don't know if i didn't understand it because of my English.
On page 57, David writes on the Attention these words:
"Women like attention. And interestingly enough, it's better to hint at the attention that you're giving them than to be too overt about it. If you say, "I was thinking about you earlier today, and I just wanted to mention that I really like the sound of your voice..." it's much more powerful than listening to them complain about something so they think you're paying attention. get it?"


on the one hand, David says that you shouldn't be too sincere with the fact that you have interest in her, and that you should hint on the attention and not say it; but on the other hand, he says that telling her that I like her voice is way better than listen to her. it's like he says that I should tell her that I like her, instead of making her wonder if I like her or not.


What did he meant?
Can you give me more examples in order to make it clear to me?

Sorry again about my English...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You can say I like the sound of your voice[3 second investment in her],but don't say "I need to be around you every second of the day, I want to marry you, worship you and be the father of your children" You are HINTING. By listening to her for hours on the phone, you are saying I have nothing better in life than to listen to you talk[you should have other things going on in your life].

If they know they own you, you'll be tossed in the closet with the rest of her old clothes. If she thinks you might be interested, you are like that nice dress in the window of the shop. She can't buy it yet,but she thinks about it often.

Dating/pickup guru's only offer advice on getting them-not keepping them. Keeping them? ask us here
 
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