"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Quantity Vs Quality

QUANTITY VS QUALITY

  • quantity

    Votes: 4 11.1%
  • quality

    Votes: 32 88.9%

  • Total voters
    36

JezDuffield

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I like your messages, Jariel, you seem like a very smart man, to me quality always wins over quantity, not only when it comes to the girls that I date, but with everything that I do in my life.

I never go under a HB7 myself as I wouldn't enjoy being in that type of relationship, my woman is a HB8 in my eyes and that is good enough for me, as looks are not everything, she is a lovely person as well. :rock:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tomatoes

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Quality EVER time

I would rather have one gold coin than a barrel of ****.
 

MrS

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Hell wrong witchoo?!

Quality.
In all areas, though!
 

Abbott

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When I found this site, there was a particular woman that I had my eyes upon. Needless to say, that did not work out.

However, my point is that I've never been seriously interested in having as much sex as possible. I would, however, like to find one really great woman. One day I hope I find her, though I guess I'll just have to wait and see.

I vote "quality."


Ben
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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john_1234

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hands down quality. there was this quality girl i dated but blew it in the early stages. she was great. ever since i messed up, i've been with quite a number of low quality chicks. i would so trade all those chicks just for that one quality girl... oneitis i know. haha
 

Shiftkey

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I'm more of a LTR guy.

And I've gotta say that I'm amazed at how distant the two options are. 7 to 45 as I type this. Good poll :up:
 

Brian20o2

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DonJuanForever said:
Quanity or Quality? That's easy:

BOTH.

A quality girl is a 6-10 in looks, cool personality, nice social status, has money, has goals, overall a great looking gal and a great person.

Now go out and get a quanity of those. I don't know bout you guys but I am 22, I just want to fvck right now, as far as looking for the "one" I don't think I am experienced or old enough to even know what she is supposed to be like.
Fully agree!
 

Bonhomme

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Quality over quantity to an extraordinary degree.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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manuva

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Hurrican said:
For me its HB6.5 or higher. No fat chicks or averages.
I'm going to propose the somewhat radical notion that a 'HB6.5' does not qualify as quality.
 

Crissco

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I want to bump this for all the new active members of the forum. Personally at this point in my life im quantity over quality. Ill admit, not always the best choice but for right now it works
 
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