"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Quantity Vs Quality

QUANTITY VS QUALITY

  • quantity

    Votes: 4 11.1%

  • quality

    Votes: 32 88.9%
  • Total voters
    36
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JezDuffield

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I like your messages, Jariel, you seem like a very smart man, to me quality always wins over quantity, not only when it comes to the girls that I date, but with everything that I do in my life.

I never go under a HB7 myself as I wouldn't enjoy being in that type of relationship, my woman is a HB8 in my eyes and that is good enough for me, as looks are not everything, she is a lovely person as well. :rock:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tomatoes

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Quality EVER time

I would rather have one gold coin than a barrel of ****.
 
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MrS

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Hell wrong witchoo?!

Quality.
In all areas, though!
 
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Abbott

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When I found this site, there was a particular woman that I had my eyes upon. Needless to say, that did not work out.

However, my point is that I've never been seriously interested in having as much sex as possible. I would, however, like to find one really great woman. One day I hope I find her, though I guess I'll just have to wait and see.

I vote "quality."


Ben
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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john_1234

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hands down quality. there was this quality girl i dated but blew it in the early stages. she was great. ever since i messed up, i've been with quite a number of low quality chicks. i would so trade all those chicks just for that one quality girl... oneitis i know. haha
 
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I'm more of a LTR guy.

And I've gotta say that I'm amazed at how distant the two options are. 7 to 45 as I type this. Good poll :up:
 
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Brian20o2

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DonJuanForever said:
Quanity or Quality? That's easy:

BOTH.

A quality girl is a 6-10 in looks, cool personality, nice social status, has money, has goals, overall a great looking gal and a great person.

Now go out and get a quanity of those. I don't know bout you guys but I am 22, I just want to fvck right now, as far as looking for the "one" I don't think I am experienced or old enough to even know what she is supposed to be like.
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Fully agree!
 
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Bonhomme

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Quality over quantity to an extraordinary degree.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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manuva

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Hurrican said:
For me its HB6.5 or higher. No fat chicks or averages.
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I'm going to propose the somewhat radical notion that a 'HB6.5' does not qualify as quality.
 
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I want to bump this for all the new active members of the forum. Personally at this point in my life im quantity over quality. Ill admit, not always the best choice but for right now it works
 
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