"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Quantity Vs Quality

QUANTITY VS QUALITY

  • quantity

    Votes: 4 11.1%
  • quality

    Votes: 32 88.9%

  • Total voters
    36

JezDuffield

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I like your messages, Jariel, you seem like a very smart man, to me quality always wins over quantity, not only when it comes to the girls that I date, but with everything that I do in my life.

I never go under a HB7 myself as I wouldn't enjoy being in that type of relationship, my woman is a HB8 in my eyes and that is good enough for me, as looks are not everything, she is a lovely person as well. :rock:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tomatoes

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Quality EVER time

I would rather have one gold coin than a barrel of ****.
 

MrS

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Hell wrong witchoo?!

Quality.
In all areas, though!
 

Abbott

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When I found this site, there was a particular woman that I had my eyes upon. Needless to say, that did not work out.

However, my point is that I've never been seriously interested in having as much sex as possible. I would, however, like to find one really great woman. One day I hope I find her, though I guess I'll just have to wait and see.

I vote "quality."


Ben
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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john_1234

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hands down quality. there was this quality girl i dated but blew it in the early stages. she was great. ever since i messed up, i've been with quite a number of low quality chicks. i would so trade all those chicks just for that one quality girl... oneitis i know. haha
 

Shiftkey

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I'm more of a LTR guy.

And I've gotta say that I'm amazed at how distant the two options are. 7 to 45 as I type this. Good poll :up:
 

Brian20o2

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DonJuanForever said:
Quanity or Quality? That's easy:

BOTH.

A quality girl is a 6-10 in looks, cool personality, nice social status, has money, has goals, overall a great looking gal and a great person.

Now go out and get a quanity of those. I don't know bout you guys but I am 22, I just want to fvck right now, as far as looking for the "one" I don't think I am experienced or old enough to even know what she is supposed to be like.
Fully agree!
 

Bonhomme

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Quality over quantity to an extraordinary degree.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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manuva

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Hurrican said:
For me its HB6.5 or higher. No fat chicks or averages.
I'm going to propose the somewhat radical notion that a 'HB6.5' does not qualify as quality.
 

Crissco

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I want to bump this for all the new active members of the forum. Personally at this point in my life im quantity over quality. Ill admit, not always the best choice but for right now it works
 
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