Quality vs quantity

[FlexpertHamilton]

As I've gotten older I've grown to care far less about "getting pvssy" and more about honing in on the best woman I can find. Specifically, high interest women who make it easy for you, who are agreeable, eager to please, young, sexy, and good in bed. That's all I want and probably all that any man wants. My peace of mind has become so important that I find most women to be too destabilizing to spend time with, even if its casual.

I was having a discussion with a friend of mine and we came to the conclusion that you meet 1 high quality girl every 2-3 months on average (if you are actively looking to some degree). I think this is accurate. It might sound low but that means like 4-6 opportunities to pursue high quality women per year. That's a lot. If any 1 given girl doesn't work out you might feel like ~3 months is a long time to meet another, but you just need to be patient and continue living your life. The alternative is filling those gaps with women are complete messes, inviting unnessary chaos and drama in your life, in an effort to "spin plates" and cope.

I am wondering if anyone else experiences this and if you have found as you get older that going on dry spells until find you find a keeper is better for your sanity and tranquility.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

"Pleasure of sex" man vs "Thrill of the hunt" man. In theory every man is more inclined to one or the other.

Guys posting Lay Reports, they are all about the hunt, they prefer variety of women over quantity of sex (with one woman), and I think there is nothing wrong with that. Pleasure of sex guys prioritize quantity of sex (with one woman they consider high quality) than variety of women, nothing wrong with that either.

You have posted about having an average lower libido than the average guy iirc. Makes sense you would prefer a "quality" woman over plate spinning. Nothing wrong with that.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

"Pleasure of sex" man vs "Thrill of the hunt" man. In theory every man is more inclined to one or the other.

Guys posting Lay Reports, they are all about the hunt, they prefer variety of women over quantity of sex (with one woman), and I think there is nothing wrong with that. Pleasure of sex guys prioritize quantity of sex (with one woman they consider high quality) than variety of women, nothing wrong with that either.

You have posted about having an average lower libido than the average guy iirc. Makes sense you would prefer a "quality" woman over plate spinning. Nothing wrong with that.

Variety/novelty also factors in for sure. Novelty is a huge mechanism for raising libido or anything dopamine related in general. That's why I value having sex with women of various ethnicities, ages, body types (not including fat), etc. Though I will never turn down a cute 21 year old tiny blonde girl.

Some types of women that are very played out. Not unnattrative, just so dime a dozen it's hard to give a shvt unless they're exceptionally sexy.

 

[The Duke]

A few years ago I got to the point that I was done putting in any major effort. I had been there, done that, and had many successes. The "thrill of the hunt" desire was still there, but my "i am tired of the bullschitt and have less tolerance for games" often overrid it.

When I ran across a new girl, I'd let them show me what category they fit in. If they were low quality then they were basically treated as plate status. If they appeared to be quality, then I showed more interest and care for them and would see where things went. This kept me out of dryspells and let me keep my sanity.

Eventually I found a quality chic that is everything I could want in a woman. If I told you guys how I met such a great girl, you guys would never believe me. I damn sure wasn't looking.