Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Quality over quantity, or vice versa?

The Deacon

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I'm getting really curious by some of these responses from these boards that some of the posters have been lowering their standards. I keep hearing stuff like "pvssy is pvssy," and I can't help but disagree. There is a quite large difference between Rosie O'Donnell pvssy and Jessica Alba pvssy (no pun intended). The whole reason I did the DJ/PUA stuff in the first place is to get better quality girls instead of the average ones. I didn't need DJ/PUA stuff to get those average chicks, sheez.

I'm sorry if I sound judging, but I want to know what you guys' thoughts on this. Do you only use average girls for practice? Are you using DJ/PUA stuff because you never attracted a girl in your life? Please post your thoughts.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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KontrollerX

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Well what they may mean by that is don't put chicks on a pedastal don't make them the prize etc.

One hot chick is as good as another is what the brothers may mean.
 

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Just because one wants to have a high quantity doesn't mean they will drop all standards.

I'd much rather have sex with ten "7's" then have sex with one "10."
 

DoctorLW

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Maxtro said:
Just because one wants to have a high quantity doesn't mean they will drop all standards.

I'd much rather have sex with ten "7's" then have sex with one "10."
What he said. It's not as extreme as Rosie O'Donnel vs Jessica Alba, that kind of comparison is utterly ridiculous.
 

The Deacon

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It is a ridiculous comparison, but I keep reading on this boards that "pvssy is pvssy," and if you honestly hold that belief there is no difference between Rosie O Donnell's and Jessica Albas, which would also be utterly absurd.

Maxtro said:
I'd much rather have sex with ten "7's" then have sex with one "10."
That's true, but I don't really like that way of viewing things. There's no option screen on the command prompt of life that says:

You have two choices. Have sex with ten HB7s or sex with one HB10.
HB7? y
HB10? n

I say that 10 HB7s is better than one HB10, but I also want people to realize that social dynamics doesn't give you the option in some weird "choose this or the other" prompt. Go for the best quality chick you can get is what I say.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bussey

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I don't think its one or the other.

People who suggest quantity... aren't being PUAs... their being sleazy.
People who suggest quality... are virgins. If you only want the best of the best, chances are you'll get none.

What people should be focused on is both. A good quantity of good quality.
 

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Lots of men are having to aim lower or go with out... cause the average woman can now aim higher due to the shortage of women. No matter how many substandard women you date it will never provide the great experience of one single quality woman. BUT when your options get limited you will go lower and lower and lower and some men go gay...LOL
 

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As I get older, quality trumps quantity every time. Can you imagine accidentally knocking up a Rosie O'Donnell look alike? The misery would be endless.

I've never went to bed with an ugly woman. I've woken up with many. Thankfully, I don't drink anymore.
 

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romangod said:
I've never went to bed with an ugly woman. I've woken up with many. Thankfully, I don't drink anymore.

that is signature worthy right there
 

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if you want high standard you leave america and go to some ex-soviet town that rarely has any outside visitors. jessica alba might be nice for the west, but you would be surprised what you will find in some of those towns. just check out some of their social networking sites. they don't use myspace or facebook.

if you want quantity just hang at some drunk college beer party. the broads might be fat and sloppy, but you will be banging before your mother tucks you in for the night.

the choice is yours. the latter choice is easier and well...it is easier. being lazy is a great option because you can still be one of the boys. the worse thing for most people is being different. you travel thousands of miles for quality and you will have guys on here laughing at you. if you stay at home and bang fat chicks you will get cyber high fives!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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romangod

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Recluce said:
that is signature worthy right there

*lol*............... Feel free to use it if you'd like. Vheers!
 
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