"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Qualifying a girl for an LTR

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About 6 months (sexually active) and about 6 months prologue, during which I was with other women.

She brought me to this site, really. My earliest posts were things like "How do I steal her from her b/f."

Of course I read here (and at girlproblems) that even if successful in stealing I'd have to face up to having a girlfriend who cheated.

Now I think I am trying to make a silk purse out of ...lesser material. In the end, though, I think I can have fun. Maybe I'll be back posting in a few months about how to break up with her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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No, that's the last guy's girlfriend. She was fully reformed when she got to me...
 
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