Giantsfan88
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If a girl declines a date from a guy, does not counter offer, and he suggests an alternative, he has assumed the role of chaser/pursuer under any circumstance right?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Qualify as chasing?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Giantsfan88
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I did not fvck her yet and my game plan otherwise was let her come to me. Good way to destroy potential right?
stevo
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First off, do not talk down on your moves and actions. You thought it, you did it and that makes it the best possible move at that time. You know why? because you learn from it.
A girl you have not fcuked could really do whatever she wants so you have to tone down your "couldnt-give-a-****ness" a little and evacuate her mindset, then you can control the outcome.
Let's plan this out.
She declined, you reproposed and then what?
A girl you have not fcuked could really do whatever she wants so you have to tone down your "couldnt-give-a-****ness" a little and evacuate her mindset, then you can control the outcome.
Let's plan this out.
She declined, you reproposed and then what?
RangerMIke
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If a women turns you down for a date and she doesn't offer an alternative then the conversation should end right there. "Another time then we'll talk later have to go, bye" Move onto the next.
Some DJ have rules try twice... three times. Heck I don't have any rules. But I don't call women who have turned me down right away. One woman who turned me down I didn't call again for over a month... another I called again the next week. I only call again because I felt like seeing her. It's all about what you want.... the only thing that I will say about that is that you REALLY should not just WANT one woman.... this makes you seem desperate and women can sense this intuitively.
Some DJ have rules try twice... three times. Heck I don't have any rules. But I don't call women who have turned me down right away. One woman who turned me down I didn't call again for over a month... another I called again the next week. I only call again because I felt like seeing her. It's all about what you want.... the only thing that I will say about that is that you REALLY should not just WANT one woman.... this makes you seem desperate and women can sense this intuitively.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Giantsfan88
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I called her a day later. She agreed to a date. I had to cancel the date the day of because people were told to stay off the roads in my area. I rescheduled to next Monday. Monday comes and I call a few hours before the date to change the location. She agrees. Weather gets bad again and this time she counter offers with "Friday or Saturday." I say something that means okay talk to you later. My plan is to wait a week and call her and ask her out for a weekday. But you're saying I look desperate and like she's the only girl in my life? Also, I didn't ask her out with a specific time and a second option of a day when I didn't get the counter offer so it wasn't a complete invitation. So how could she think I have any form of oneitis?