Giantsfan88
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If a girl declines a date from a guy, does not counter offer, and he suggests an alternative, he has assumed the role of chaser/pursuer under any circumstance right?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Qualify as chasing?
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Giantsfan88
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I did not fvck her yet and my game plan otherwise was let her come to me. Good way to destroy potential right?
stevo
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First off, do not talk down on your moves and actions. You thought it, you did it and that makes it the best possible move at that time. You know why? because you learn from it.
A girl you have not fcuked could really do whatever she wants so you have to tone down your "couldnt-give-a-****ness" a little and evacuate her mindset, then you can control the outcome.
Let's plan this out.
She declined, you reproposed and then what?
A girl you have not fcuked could really do whatever she wants so you have to tone down your "couldnt-give-a-****ness" a little and evacuate her mindset, then you can control the outcome.
Let's plan this out.
She declined, you reproposed and then what?
RangerMIke
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If a women turns you down for a date and she doesn't offer an alternative then the conversation should end right there. "Another time then we'll talk later have to go, bye" Move onto the next.
Some DJ have rules try twice... three times. Heck I don't have any rules. But I don't call women who have turned me down right away. One woman who turned me down I didn't call again for over a month... another I called again the next week. I only call again because I felt like seeing her. It's all about what you want.... the only thing that I will say about that is that you REALLY should not just WANT one woman.... this makes you seem desperate and women can sense this intuitively.
Some DJ have rules try twice... three times. Heck I don't have any rules. But I don't call women who have turned me down right away. One woman who turned me down I didn't call again for over a month... another I called again the next week. I only call again because I felt like seeing her. It's all about what you want.... the only thing that I will say about that is that you REALLY should not just WANT one woman.... this makes you seem desperate and women can sense this intuitively.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Giantsfan88
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I called her a day later. She agreed to a date. I had to cancel the date the day of because people were told to stay off the roads in my area. I rescheduled to next Monday. Monday comes and I call a few hours before the date to change the location. She agrees. Weather gets bad again and this time she counter offers with "Friday or Saturday." I say something that means okay talk to you later. My plan is to wait a week and call her and ask her out for a weekday. But you're saying I look desperate and like she's the only girl in my life? Also, I didn't ask her out with a specific time and a second option of a day when I didn't get the counter offer so it wasn't a complete invitation. So how could she think I have any form of oneitis?