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sac_hot_male

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as you all may know, in HS, its usually crowded...i have seem some HB around and wanted to make an approach but some how it bothers me that others would make fun of me for hitting a HB...i guess thats like the main reason why i dont do HS approach...

-so should i even care about what other people think if i were to hit on a HB?
-do you even care if you got rejected by a HB in front of a crowd?

in my school its almost alway crowded whether its before, during, or after school...
 

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sac_hot_male said:
as you all may know, in HS, its usually crowded...i have seem some HB around and wanted to make an approach but some how it bothers me that others would make fun of me for hitting a HB...i guess thats like the main reason why i dont do HS approach...

-so should i even care about what other people think if i were to hit on a HB?
-do you even care if you got rejected by a HB in front of a crowd?

in my school its almost alway crowded whether its before, during, or after school...
It might be easier to just get to know the girl inside her social group and then ask her out later so it doesn't seem so out of the blue. I know that most people in High School would be sure to make fun of you for cold approaching anyone, since most of them are immature douchebags that don't have the balls to do it themselves.
 

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Yeah, try to get into her social crowd. From there, show her some attention but not all, spread some around too (can't look too needy) Then, make plans with her somewhere away from school. As for the whole "school kids busting on you", I wouldn't worry about it. If it works out, you'll be the one laughing
 

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well, first of all, don't ask a girl out infront of her friends/your friends, wait untill you have some form of isolation. Now this isolation could be just the two of you walking down the hall together, because usually everyone is involved with their own conversations with their freinds and not really listening to the people around them.

Now, in my opinion, there is no such thing as cold approaching in high school, at least in my high school. There are only about 1000 students at my highschool, and im pretty sure ive seen just about everyone at some point or another, and they've probably seen you around too. So just go up to them and say something like, "hi, i've seen you around before right?" and bingo, she's in a conversation with you.
 

sac_hot_male

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wow my threads is still alive lol...

i'll just get straight to the point...there's this HB that i most likely will see her walking by herself alot...i know that i'm suppose to go up and talk to her but do i just say "hi, i seen you around but dont even know you, what's your name?"(in my opinion she's the hottest chick in my school)...and one more thing, she's my guy friend's cousin though
 

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