"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Q on calling

Chronix

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When I get a number from a chick in highschool should I still wait two days then call or should it be done differently since I have a class with her?

-Chron
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sac_hot_male

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yea i got the same questions too:

what should i do if she say somethings like call me tonight or later on the day?

should i called her or wait?

any bright ideas would help

thanks
 

WesCottII

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Chronix said:
When I get a number from a chick in highschool should I still wait two days then call or should it be done differently since I have a class with her?

-Chron

Call her when you feel is good. If it were me, I'd wait, then tell her i'd been busy IF she asked.
 

WesCottII

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sac_hot_male said:
yea i got the same questions too:

what should i do if she say somethings like call me tonight or later on the day?

should i called her or wait?

any bright ideas would help

thanks
Personally, I'd call her that night. It'd be rude not to, but I'd have something else planned, so I could say "Can't talk long, I'm doing/going !whatever!!"

Arrange the date, then phone down.
 

shydude

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Dont call her especially when you have class everyday! Call her about a day before you are setting up a date!! Chiks dig men that hold their balls it their pants until its time to take them out! Same goes with character, be serious when needed, be funny when needed, and call her when needed, Dont call her a lot, let her call you, if she starts calling you everyday, IGNORE MOST CALLS, tell her you are a busy guy, SHE will resepct YOU!!
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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