"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Q on calling

Chronix

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When I get a number from a chick in highschool should I still wait two days then call or should it be done differently since I have a class with her?

-Chron
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sac_hot_male

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yea i got the same questions too:

what should i do if she say somethings like call me tonight or later on the day?

should i called her or wait?

any bright ideas would help

thanks
 

WesCottII

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Chronix said:
When I get a number from a chick in highschool should I still wait two days then call or should it be done differently since I have a class with her?

-Chron

Call her when you feel is good. If it were me, I'd wait, then tell her i'd been busy IF she asked.
 

WesCottII

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sac_hot_male said:
yea i got the same questions too:

what should i do if she say somethings like call me tonight or later on the day?

should i called her or wait?

any bright ideas would help

thanks
Personally, I'd call her that night. It'd be rude not to, but I'd have something else planned, so I could say "Can't talk long, I'm doing/going !whatever!!"

Arrange the date, then phone down.
 

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Dont call her especially when you have class everyday! Call her about a day before you are setting up a date!! Chiks dig men that hold their balls it their pants until its time to take them out! Same goes with character, be serious when needed, be funny when needed, and call her when needed, Dont call her a lot, let her call you, if she starts calling you everyday, IGNORE MOST CALLS, tell her you are a busy guy, SHE will resepct YOU!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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