"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Putting women on an emotional roller coaster ride
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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I am not falling for your attempt to create more drama on this thread. I have enough of it in the real world thanks.
Kaine
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Sensuality and Romance is also drama
Playfulness causes drama
Rockclimbing and boxing is dramatic
Actually by definition anything that causes a moving change in emotion can be defined as drama
Fact of the matter woman are emotional creatures and to give them the feelings they desire is to be a true Don Juan/Cassanova
I also liked Nishbuks post about the world been "a world of relatives". That is why push and pull is so effective in keeping a womans interest (whether you did it intentionally or not), "the negative makes the positive even better".
She appreciates you more if she is allowed to miss you, she appreciates your attention and affection more if you show your independence and cool.
Kaine
DJ_in_making
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I was enjoying this until I heard that..... I'm not too crazy about women posting on sosuave myself, but I don't think anyone should have to go through this kind of harrassment at all.
Please don't treat me like a victim. I appreciate the sentiment and all...but it's not necessary. When I started feeling ill I got up and walked away from it. I can handle myself just fine. The only reason I argued this until I felt sick was because I'm right and this is such an important issue. If it were something more trivial I wouldn't have even bothered.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Oh please...harassment??????? Nobody forces her to come to this board and participate. You're falling for her stupid ploys.
She's basically out of her mind. She says I'll harass her on another thread? When have I ever harassed her? She keeps coming back on here and responding. If she's so damn harassed, why does she come back for more.
I feel like I'm harassed too. I'm just not going to respond any more to this idiot, or her male dominions.
You're putting words in my mouth. I never used the word "harass". I said you'd start crap elsewhere, which you most likely will.
You haven't been "harassed"...you were the one who started throwing around insults. You have been an "a s s", though.
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Looks like you and I have something in common then doesn't it.Originally posted by Wyldfire
No, you aren't here for drama...you're here for attention.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Why are you even here? This forum is for DJ's and aspiring DJ's. i have no problem with you being here if you want to be constructive. But you seem to be initiating quite a bit of arguments that aren't condusive to a learning enviorment. please obey the TOS or I will have no options but to have your account terminated.
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penkitten
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some women create drama and emotional rollercoasters to keep men interested. dont you hate that ****?? you dont respect those women very much do you? dont see them as ladies?
me either.
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Thread closed.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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